Oral Sex And Adolescents

There is increasing evidence that today's teenagers are engaging in oral sex as a method of birth control. Some experts believe that this is actually contributing to a rise in the incidences of sexually transmitted diseases.

The Center for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) has listed viral sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) that may be transmitted through oral sex to include HIV, human papillomavirus, herpes simplex virus, and hepatitis B. Bacterial infections that may be transmitted include gonorrhea, syphilis, chlamydia, and chancroid.

Oral sex has also been noted as a method of transmitting HIV; however, the risk of becoming infected with HIV through unprotected (without a condom) oral sex is lower than that of unprotected anal or vaginal sex.

It's important that those who educate young people about sexuality broaden their message beyond penile-vaginal intercourse. There are a variety of sexual expressions in which young people are participating. Although it may be uncomfortable to discuss, parents and teachers need to talk about oral sex.

Adolescents need to broaden their definition of sex beyond intercourse. This is important in helping them to understand that there is virtually no sexual activity that is risk-free.

The CDC recommends a positive approach to discussing sex with adolescents. They need to be commended for choosing to prevent pregnancy. However, they also need to know that there may be negative consequences to the choices they are making. Discussing these consequences in a factual, non-judgmental way with your teenager is the best defense we can give them in dealing with the complexities of sexual activity.

Laura R. Meers, Ph.D.

Consulting Psychologist